Saturday, January 9, 2010

The Waiting Game


In order to travel, let alone work, in another country requires quite a bit of preparation, patience, and .... waiting.

I have been applying for some jobs to teach English in South Korea, and it has not been an easy task. Well lets just say the getting the job part is easier than actually being legal for that job. One of the requirements to be hired for a school and receive a Visa, is to have a criminal background check. Which, depending on the state you're in while applying, can be the easiest or the hardest part of applying.

Unlucky for me, it has been the hardest. And it is even harder because I was actually offered that job that asked me all those odd questions about my tattoos. So now the waiting game becomes cruicial because I have signed a contract, and have a deadline. I sent in my criminal background check about 2 months ago, and still don't have it back yet. I need to have all my documents to Korea by the 20th of January. So....I'm getting a little nervous.

I'm praying that by some act of kindness in the "system", the FBI will send my clearance my way this week and I'll have all my documents ready for Korea and can start the Visa process.

If this happens then I will start my new job in South Korea on March 3rd, and be leaving the states a week before! I cannot wait! Then 2010 will be full of adventures all over Asia.

In the meantime I wait. And wait. And wait....


Sunday, January 3, 2010

The Mayonnaise Cake



I sat down to dinner with the 'rents today, and it suddenly dawned on me that I should probably do some research on the types of food I'll be eating in Asia (specifically South Korea) for the next year. I wouldn't say that I'm necessarily a picky eater, but food is definitely a big part of my day and an experience. I'm kind of a health fanatic. I'm a calorie counter, and a protein FREAK. I do admit I'm a little obsessive at times about reading labels, and working out. But I enjoy running and working out a lot, so I try to bless my body with the essential nutrients because I feel so bad about beating it up so hard during a hardcore work out.

I guess I'm not really nervous about what I'll eat, I'll pretty much eat anything. But I am concerned about eating healthy, and maintain that in Korea. It will certainly be much easier because I will be living on my own, and will ultimately be responsible for what I put into my body. Which was a different story than when I was living with my host parents in Sevilla.

I will never forget it. The day I saw a sight so stunning to the eye, so churning to the stomach. It was an infamous day, a memorable one of course. I come home from school one day for lunch, starving as I was on many days because breakfast was at like the break of dawn. The Spanish have very long breaks during their meals, and it was incredibly hard to get used to. I was constantly starving in between meals, and would often hide snacks in my closet praying my host mom wouldn't find them and throw them away!

So I come in the door and see what I think is a glorious, perfectly made carrot cake. The white frosting was shining in the afternoon sun. The carrot shaving's atop in a cute little pattern. I remember bursting into my room and erupting in excitement as I told my roommate about the delicious cake we had awaiting us. Meals were a huge struggle for our particular family, as was getting used to the food my host mom made. So these little moments of pure food bliss, were always to be remembered.

However this moment was short lived as we were called to lunch by Pablo our little host brother. As we enter the kitchen the most horrible site is sitting there staring at me blank in the eye on my plate.

The Mayonnaise Cake.

Yep. Mayonnaise. If you know me you know how much I HATE mayonnaise. It's the most vile disgusting thing on Earth as far as I'm concerned. So what I thought was going to be a dream of carrot cake in my mouth, was actually an oversized, giant, mayonnaise sandwich. Otherwise dubbed, The Mayonnaise Cake. It had bread on the bottom, a layer of tomatoes, carrots and mayonnaise, another layer of bread....and this goes on stacked three layers high. I was absolutely mortified. I looked at my roommate and said in English, "Dude...I don't think I can do this one".

It ended up being the longest lunch I ever sat through. I tried to scrape off as much mayonnaise as possible and eat the veggies, but they were just swimming in it. I couldn't just leave the mayonnaise there, globbed on the side of my plate, evidence of my disapproval for my host mom to see. I was torn. Do I just suck it up and eat it, surely I could hold in the gag reflex long enough to get down one piece. The entire lunch took me almost two hours to finish. As I would take one bite and three huge gulps of water to wash it down with. I wanted to make sure I didn't disrespect my host mom, and Spanish women take a lot of pride in their "cooking", I would be just devastated if she thought I was being rude. So, it took awhile, but I got through it. And thank God my host mother never bought that again.

I think eating in a foreign country and new foods, are some of the toughest things to adapt to. It's important to try new things, discover some of the greatest foods ever made. But sometimes those discoveries turn into disasters that are lessons learned. I also tend to eat way unhealthier while traveling/living abroad. I want to try everything, I'm unfamiliar with the nutrition and cuisine, my stomach and digestion are all out of whack for awhile.

So I think I'll be doing a lot of research on Korean foods, and hopefully hitting up fresh fruit markets daily! Yum! One thing I can always look forward to leaving America, most countries have tons fresh food markets lining the streets. I'll be getting used to much smaller accommodations, and probably grocery shopping for simply what I'll want for the day instead of an entire week like here in the states.

I look forward to the Korean cuisine, a little scared about the meat dishes, but inevitably there will be another "Mayonnaise Cake" so to speak. And I don't think anything can ever compare.

Yuck!




Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Tattoo Taboo's


I just recently had a phone interview with a prospective employer in South Korea for a teaching position. We spoke for nearly a half an hour, and I thought things were going great. I was prepared, I answered quickly and intelligently, and I ended up keeping her engaged with my own set of questions towards the end.

However, as the conversation ended something strange happened. She asked me if she could ask me a personal question, and I could chose to answer or not. I said yes of course, I mean why would I say no right? She then stated she was inclined to note on my application ( and I suppose for her own personal opinion) to ask whether or not I had any tattoos, if they were visible, and if any, what they were.

Ah dios mios. As soon as she asked I knew that this wasn't a job I was probably going to get. I do in fact have two tattoos. One in the middle of my back, and one on my right ankle. And you know the ironic thing here? I've been researching Tattoo Removal for the past few months, hoping to get the one on my ankle removed before heading to Korea. But since I have about two months before that happens, I can't really say that's actually going to happen.

My tattoos are not offensive, large, or even that intrusive. However, I do hate the one on my ankle and have wanted it removed for quite some time. It is such an internal battle for me because sometimes I go through periods of times that I feel like I could care less about my tattoos and I think they're kind of cool because they represent an experience in my life. I got them both on a trip to Thailand when I was 16. Wild right? Cool story right? Well wrong. I could care less about the one on my back merely because I never see it. The one on my ankle....eeek...I am ashamed to even say what it is out loud. A typical butterfly intertwined with a heart and blah blah blah. Typical right? Disgusting right? But hey, I was 16 and in Thailand. Although I wish I would have picked something else, and who knows what I was thinking at the time, it's there...and it ain't coming off any time soon.

So here's the dilemma. I've always had trouble in professional work environments with my ankle tattoo. Feeling that I always have to hide it, or cross my legs in a certain way so people cannot see it. Usually it's not even a problem, more of a problem for me really than an employer. However the fact that she asked, means she probably doesn't approve of them and won't hire someone with visible tattoos. Apparently she's had problems with Americans coming over having very offensive tattoos, and South Korean parents do not tend to like them. Well I don't think that they'd be offended of my silly little butterfly, but probably just the fact that its there. Since I believe the Korean culture appears to be a little more conservative than my Western American culture...I might be at a little disadvantage here. Which bottom line, sucks.

It's frustrating to me because all I want to do is be on my way to South Korea. Hopefully I'm being over-paranoid (Me?! No Way!). And hopefully my Thailand regrets (there were many other than the tattoos, haha) will not hinder my way of getting to South Korea.

I'm still counting down the days to South Korea, and counting down the days where I might have my tattoo removed, or even counting down the days where I don't care anymore. But as much as this hurts to say, you were right dad. Go ahead. Muck up my shame. :)

Friday, December 4, 2009

TEFL or not to TEFL?


This question has haunted me since the beginning of my college career, when the first little thoughts flickered into my brain about teaching English abroad. Oh the in-experience of Americans wanting to run away to frolic in foreign lands. (Yes I did just say frolic).

Despite the verdict heard 'round the world, and the fear the Amanda Knox trial might instill in some American travelers, I'm still puttin' on my hiking boots and headin' out East. East Asia that is.

I've been gathering all documents possible in order to live, work, and travel in South Korea and other parts of Asia for the past two months. But along the way I have been getting little snip-its here and there from people saying I should really obtain a TEFL Online Certificate before I go over to Korea. With a certificate it is said that I will be offered more positions, a higher pay and be better off prepared to teach English. The appeal to teach in Asia for Americans is extremely high, and that I believe is for one reason. You don't have to have experience to teach! But times are becoming harder, and things for Americans might not be as easy as they once were to jet-set over to Asia for a year or two.

However now I am faced with this challenge. Do I take the TEFL Online course before I go over, do I take it and complete it while I'm over, or do I just take my chances and hope to find a job without the certificate? My main problem with taking the 100 hour online course, is that it costs money. Money that I don't have right now as I am saving every penny to pay for the amazingness that will be Asia.

I'm also hoping that in a few years time I will return to my love affair with Spain, and hopefully find a teaching position in southern Spain. And alas, just my luck, teaching in Europe is a whole other ballpark than teaching in Asia. They are actually quite competitive, they require a course, a certificate, ample amounts of teaching experience, AND they're not too keen on hiring Americans. Getting a visa to work in Europe is like getting my mother to admit when she's wrong. It just ain't gonna happen.

So do I fork up the cash, sacrifice the time, complete the course and hope that it significantly helps my job opportunities in Korea? Or do I put another coin in the slot machine and risk it?

Thoughts?

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Just For Today

Just for Today I will try to live through this day only, and not tackle all my problems at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would appall me if I felt that I had to keep it up for a lifetime.

Just for Today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Just for Today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to my own desires, I will take my "luck" as it comes, and fit myself to it.

Just for Today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.

Just for Today I will exercise my soul in three ways: I will do somebody a good turn, and not get found out; if anybody knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least two things I don't want to do --just for exercise. I will not show anyone that my feelings are hurt; they may be hurt but today I will not show it.

Just for Today I will have a program. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests : hurry and indecision.

Just for Today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself, and relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get a better perspective of my life.

Just for Today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give to the world, so the world will give to me.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Where I've Been & Where I'm Going


As I plan out the next adventure in my life, I've decided to re-count all the places I've been and all the places I hope to go. It is absurd how big the world is, and everyday is one day closer to my next big goal : Asia.

*Where I've Been:
  • Cuidad Juarez - Mexico
  • Sintra, Lisbon, & Setubal - Portugal
  • Barcelona, Madrid, Malaga, Sevilla, Cordoba, Granada, Cadiz, Ronda, Nerja, Jerez - Spain
  • Paris - France
  • Florence - Italy
  • Koln, Marburg, Frankfurt, Ingoldstadt, Munich - Germany
  • Zurich - Switzerland
  • Luxembourg City - Luxembourg
  • Bangkok - Thailand
  • The Bahamas
*Where I'm going (in Asia):

  • Seoul - South Korea
  • Hong Kong, Beijing - China
  • Tokyo - Japan
  • Philippines
  • Indonesia
  • India
I have been to most of the southern parts of Europe, but am hoping to get to so so so much more. I am absolutely in love with Europe. And I can't wait to go everywhere up North, and then over to the UK. (I'm dying to go to Scotland!). But as I plan all this traveling, I have to keep a little perspective going, and bring myself back down to reality too sometimes. I'm hoping to accomplish Asia in the next year. And from Asia it seems only plausible (and EXTREMELY exciting) to hit up Australia and New Zealand too.

So....South Korea is next and I'm working hard to get there. I can't even begin to think about Africa or South America, I want to go everywhere! In the next year I believe I can accomplish Asia and that's just what I'm planning on doing.

“For my part, I travel not to go anywhere, but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move.” – Robert Louis Stevenson


Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Nachos Anyone?


So. Since the last time I posted (still trying to get used to keeping up with the actual writing of the blog), I have been brain-storming like crazy. A world tour?! By myself?! It's going to take a lot of preparation and planning on my part. BUT, I do have a solution and a first destination.

Korea.

Yep. If you know me you're probably wondering..."Kate, YOU are going to ASIA?" Yeah yeah yeah, we all know I lived on Oahu for quite some time and was a little..."confused" you could say with the Asian culture at times.

But Korea seems like the perfect place to start to see the world, not to mention a great place to earn a living as a foreigner to save up for the rest of my journey. I owe a lot of this spark of excitement to my good friend Nacho. Don't ask about the name, just accept it. Love it. Roll with it.

I will have to elaborate on this Mission Korea plan a lot in the next few postings. But for now I am so overwhelmed with the amount of paper work and documents I need to collect in order to obtain a Visa to even be allowed in Korea. I apparently need my college diploma (am I sure I graduated?!)...well I can't be too sure because I can't seem to find my actual diploma. You know, the real one. Not the fake piece of paper they give you while you walk across the stage. SO, if I can't find my real one I have to order a replacement. Which could take up to 10-14 weeks the girl told me at UH. And if I know Hawaiian Time....it just ain't gonna be anywhere near 10-14 weeks. So I'm a little worried about that.

My time frame is February and/or March of next year to actually be in Korea working. So yes, that does give me about 3-4 months. However, with the ordering of the diploma and the criminal background check that takes weeks as well, I just hope I can get it all done. And done right. If it's anything like the Visa I had to obtain to study in Spain...whew....I'm in for the long hall of frustrating phone calls, angry emails, and dis functional faxes.

Nacho and I went to high school together back in Eureka. He's been living in Korea now for over a year, and loves it. It's kind of cheating because he's half Korean, but hey, gotta take advantage of those roots. But he has successfully sold a great allusion to life in Korea. Count me in!

I have a plan. I have a first destination. I have a time frame. And I have Nacho. That's all I need to get this kick ass World Adventure started.

Thoughts?